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Our leader’s blog is usually written by Dr Ada Adeghe, a member of our Church Council. Ada is a regular speaker at Excel Church. She is originally from Nigeria and has lived in Wolverhampton for 20 Years. She has been married to Jude for 32 years and together they have three grown up children.  Ada is a Professional Educator and Mentor.  Ada’s desire is to see all God’s children appropriate His promises for themselves, thereby living lives of unlimited possibilities.

A new blog is usually posted at the start of each month.


Stay Joyful, your answer is on its way!

I had a tooth extraction recently, after many months of agony and discomfort.   This was not my first extraction, so I knew something not quite right about this last one, because the pain remained unrelenting even after one week and I continued to take some pain killers.  Having returned back to the dentist, he confirmed what I had suspected.  The extraction site was infected and he prescribed me some antibiotics.  Suddenly I didn’t feel the need to take any more painkillers, because I knew that come 24 hours, the pain will begin to subside, because the appropriate treatment had been applied to my gums. And sure enough, the pain disappeared within a couple of days of taking the antibiotics.

I started to reflect on how it is when we bring our needs to God in prayer.  We need to be confident in our faith that He hears us and that He is on our case.  It might look like nothing is happening, you can’t see any change, but God is not man and His ways are not our ways. He says he has good thoughts towards you, so keep your hope alive. The God kind of hope is a living hope, one that will never disappoint.  Hebrews chapter 6, verse 19 says: ‘We have this hope as an anchor for our soul, firm and secure.’

I heard a sermon recently about God always being on time.  His timing is always perfect because He is God.  He created the times and seasons.  Psalm 31, verse 15 says ‘My times are in your hands.’   So, you may be feeling frustrated and impatient today because of some delay in answered prayers, but be still and know that God is working behind the scenes and at the right time, he will show up for you. Remain in peace, stay joyful in your praise and remain in His word.   Your answer is on its way!


A different kind of Power

Few things must grieve our heavenly father more than when we, His children, fail to appreciate the power he has bestowed upon us.  The book of Ephesians (Chapter 1, verses18 -20) compares that power to the one God exerted when he raised Jesus from the dead. We may struggle to comprehend how we as mere mortals can possess that kind of power.  However, we need to understand that it is an ‘inherited’ power, based solely on our ‘connected-ness’ with Him.  This truth has several implications for us:

 We can start to act with boldness, because know now that our human limitations cannot stop us, since it is God’s mighty power that will work in us to accomplish whatever it is that he has called us to do.  Proverbs chapter 28, verse 1 tells us that the righteous are bold as lions.

 We know also that once we step out in faith, God will step in to enable us succeed.  Many times we are waiting on God, whereas, He is waiting on us to step out.

 More than likely, there will be challenges and obstacles on the journey towards achieving our God-given dreams, but we can rest assured that God, our father,  will be there holding our hands every step of the way, helping us overcome every single obstacle. In Jeremiah, chapter 32, verse 27, He says: ‘I am the Lord, the God of all mankind.  Is anything too hard for me?’

I don’t know what dream you may have given up on. I don’t know what challenges you may be facing, but one thing I know is that, Faith is a fight.   Don’t throw in the towel. Instead, throw your hat back in the ring and trust God to be your cheer leader.  His mighty power will show up just when you need it. That’s His promise!


Run to the God of Comfort

It has been a very difficult couple of weeks for my family, with the unexpected and untimely death of my dearly beloved brother.  My brother loved and served the Lord most diligently, so quite naturally, in the immediate aftermath of this awesome tragedy, my first question was ‘Why Lord, why?’

But there were no answers except the sad realisation that serving God does not absolve us from trials and tribulations. John chapter 16, verses 33 says: ‘I have told you these things, so that you may have peace.  In this world you will have trouble.  But take heart!  I have overcome the world.’ This should provide those who mourn with some comfort. We grieve, but not in the same way as those who have no hope (I Thessalonians, chapter 14 verse 3).

As Christians, when we believe in the death conquering resurrection of Jesus, our dread of death is minimised, because our belief and hope in Jesus guarantees us eternal life!  See John chapter 11, verses 25-26:  ‘I am the resurrection and the life.  The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die.’

We will still feel deep sorrow and grief at the death of a loved one and that sorrow is normal.  We must never feel guilty about grieving for one we will never see again on this earth. But how we feel does not change the word of God.  One day we will we will be reunited with our loved ones.

If you are going through a period of mourning today, take heart and humbly submit to the sovereignty of God even when you don’t understand why he has taken your loved one.  That trust is fundamental to our Christian faith.  His ways are not our ways (Isaiah chapter 55, verses 8-9).  But his ways are far higher, wiser and more superior than ours.  May the God of comfort continue to hold up those who mourn.  

Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted’ (Matthew 5:4).


Take Time to Enter His Rest.

It is the school holiday season when teachers, parents and learners of all ages believe they deserve a break.  Taking time out of our busy routines whatever they may be, to rest, is of one of God’s greatest gifts to his people.  Rest is synonymous with peace and calm.  We take time to ‘recharge’ our bodies, our physical ‘batteries’ so when the summer break is over, we feel refreshed and energised to engage with regular activities again, be it work or school life.

There is also a spiritual angle to God’s rest, one that is deeply satisfying, meaningful and profound. This supersedes simply resting from our normal activities and lounging in our living rooms or sunbathing in exotic holiday locations.  Entering this deeper level of rest means we cease from fretting and worrying about things and issues we have little control over and instead learn to be at peace, knowing that God never loses control of our lives.  It also means taking to heart God’s assurances that He loves us with an everlasting love (Jeremiah, chapter 31 verse 3) and that He will never leave us nor forsake us (Deuteronomy, chapter 31, verse 6).

When we truly grasp God’s love for us, we learn to live in total dependence on Him and cease to rely solely on our own human intellect, wisdom and manipulation of events in our lives. Proverbs chapter 3, verse 5-6 encourages us to: ‘Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths.’  This means any move towards total dependence on ourselves is a sure move away from God!

Have a restful and refreshing time this summer break by truly entering into God’s own rest as He meant it to be. Remain blessed.

JULY 2018

The Match is fixed in your favour!

It has been World Cup fever over the past couple of weeks and it is set to continue for another fortnight or so.  While I am not a football fanatic or even fan for that matter, you can’t help but be drawn into the excitement and tension of it all.  I am even starting to understand some of the rules of football!  

In a sense, life is like a football match. As you watch the players battling it out on the field, you experience with them moments of sheer ecstasy and elation when their team scores a goal and conversely, extreme frustration and desperation when things are going badly for them on the field.  

This is similar to the peaks and troughs we experience in life. Happy moments like getting married, the joy of a new birth, passing an examination, gaining  a promotion at work, buying your first car, are all too soon tinged with the death of a loved one, sickness, losing a job, divorce, failing an examination, betrayal etc.  It is the nature of life.  We are told we will have many troubles in life (John, chapter 26, verse 33).

For those who have put their trust in the Lord Jesus Christ however, there is hope, even in times of sadness, so much so that we can boldly declare that the game of life has been fixed in our favour!  One verse of scripture captures this truth:

‘But thanks be to God, who always causes us to triumph in Christ…’  (2 Corinthians, chapter 2 verse 14)

This means that as we go through the match of life, just like our football players, there will be plenty highs and lows but in Christ, we always win!

JUNE 2018

Be a Light Bearer

Matthew Chapter 5 verse 16 says: ‘Let your light so shine before men that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.

The power of dominion in our Christian lives, I believe, is in direct proportion to the extent to which our lights shine.  Also, since what shines out on the outside is deeply connected to what we have on the inside of us, our lights will only shine brightly when the word of God is deeply embedded in our hearts.  Colossians chapter 3 verse 16 encourages us through this: ‘Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly….’ This means, the greater the light within us, the greater the dominion over sin, our human failings and wider challenges of life.   So often, the word of God within us is so limited and scant that when pressure comes, we destroy our Christian testimonies by acting worse than those who do not profess to believe in Christ.  As Matthew chapter 6 verse 23 says: ‘If the light in you is darkness, how great is the darkness!’

We are children of the most-high God, ambassadors for Christ.  This is a position of privilege but also one of great responsibility. Let us stop being ruled solely by our own selfish desires and ambitions, but ‘crucify our flesh’ (Galatians, 5 verse 54) to the greater glory of being positive role models for the Christianity we profess.

May God our father give us all the grace and wisdom to live not by our own rules and selfish ambitions, but by His word because ‘Forever O Lord, thy word is settled in heaven!’(Psalm 119, verse 89).  Be blessed.

MAY 2018

Walk with God

One reason I love the summer months is because the brightness is great for early morning walks.  I also get the opportunity to commune with God, enjoying quiet moments with Him before my daily commitments begin.  Psalm 92, verses 1-2 says: ‘It is good to praise the Lord, and make music to your name …proclaiming your love in the morning..’  My intention always is to bask in the love of God, draw strength daily and gain inner peace by walking and praying silently - a powerful combination of physical and spiritual exercise.  This intention works most of the time, but like I said last month, our ‘prayers’ can so easily slide into ‘worry lists’ that we present to God.  

This is exactly what I caught myself doing recently – undertaking a ‘worry walk’ instead of a ‘prayer walk.’  Often we believe we are fully reliant on God and trust him implicitly until we face a challenge that seems insurmountable to us. But isn’t this exactly why we need God?  When we can see a way out of our challenges, we don’t need His supernatural intervention!  We need him when we cannot see a way out.  Remember the song: ‘God will make a way where there seems to be no way.’

Our wisdom and knowledge as human beings will always be partial and incomplete (Corinthians chapter 13, verse 9).  But God knows all.  His knowledge is complete and nothing can take him by surprise.  He is omniscient, meaning He is ‘all-knowing’.  He is ‘all wise’, He is all seeing’.

I am feeling very encouraged at the moment to know that if God knows everything, I don’t have to know everything!  I just need to strengthen my intimacy with him, walk with him daily, slipping my hands into his and trusting him to guide me to my desired haven. This gives me so much comfort and I hope it does the same for you too. Blessings.

APRIL 2018

Don’t Let Worries Cloud Your Vision

I just returned from a family wedding in a town called Lokoja, a river port in south-central Nigeria on the west bank of the Niger River.  We stayed at a lovely hotel overlooking some really picturesque hills and valleys, for a couple of days.  Right from the moment we arrived at the wedding venue, I was consumed with worry about one thing or the other going wrong on the day. There was no logical reason for my concerns as like most weddings, everything had been well planned in advance and more importantly, prayer had been a constant throughout the preparation period.  Yet, I chose to worry.  It was only after all celebrations had been successfully completed and we were preparing to leave the hotel, that I suddenly noticed the breath-taking scenery around us.  I had been too consumed with needless worry to appreciate the sheer beauty surrounding us, until it was too late!

This made me really sad and caused me to reflect on how often we miss the beauty of God’s presence and the peace only He can give us, because our minds are cluttered with fears and anxieties, many of them, self-created or imagined.  The bible tells us that when we pray, we must believe that we have received what we have prayed for (James, chapter 1 verse 6). Why bother praying if we cannot put our complete trust in the goodness and mercy of God?  And sometimes, even our prayers can become ‘worry lists’ that we present to God half wondering if it is really His desire to meet our needs.

We cannot worry and trust at the same time.  We must recognise too that all worry is a waste of our precious time.  We cannot change anything by worrying.  In fact, worry hampers our ability to be creative in seeking solutions to our problems, real or imagined.  Luke chapter 12 verse 25 asks us: ‘Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life?’ Instead, we must be willing to cast all our burdens and fears upon God because he cares for us (1 Peter, chapter 5, verse 7).  Next time you are tempted to worry, just remember that.

MARCH 2018

What do you believe?

I always found the story of the Woman with Issue of Blood fascinating (Mark, chapter 5 verses 24 -34).  We are told that a large crowd was following Jesus and pressed round him.  This woman who had been bleeding for 12 years – with no solution to her problem, despite visiting numerous physicians – thought to herself that she would be healed if only she could just touch Jesus’ garment!  She did and got her much desired healing.  I was thinking to myself that, there would have been a multitude of people in the crowd that day, all with a range of ailments and needs, who were actually pressing against Jesus, people within close proximity, who did not make a connection between touching Him and getting their needs met.  Except for this one desperate woman. Her miracle occurred based on one fact only - her faith in the power of Jesus to meet her need.  

Often, we feel we can only receive our miracle if a ‘man or woman of God’, or someone ‘spiritual’ prays for us.  But not so in this story. The example of this woman shows us that only our faith has the power to bring our miracle to pass!  God is pleased when we put our faith in him and He never lets us down (‘Without faith it is impossible to please God’ - Hebrews chapter 11, verse 6).

What we say and believe about ourselves and our situation has far greater impact on the outcome than what others say about us and our circumstances. You can bring your miracle to pass. You and God alone. He is for you.  Only believe! This must be a great source of comfort for the believer.  When we align our thoughts and beliefs with what God says about us as his children, we are well on our way to living our best lives ever. This is transformational thinking, much aligned to the exhortation we are given in Romans, chapter 12, verse 2 – ‘Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.’  My encouragement to you this month is simply this: Only believe, because ‘With God all things are possible!’ (Matthew chapter 19, verse 26).


How Is Your Faith Walk?

Sometime ago, we were discussing the concept of faith in our house group, different people offering their own definitions of what faith meant to them.  I remembered being taught as a young 8 year old that ‘Faith is the supernatural gift of God which enables us to believe, without doubting, whatever God has revealed.’   That definition of faith has stuck with me all these years. It is rather similar to that in Hebrews chapter 11, verse 1 which says: ‘Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.’

Not long after our house group meeting, I shared a difficult situation with my sister and she encouraged me to have faith in God to work things out for me, adding: ‘Act like God is telling you the truth.’  I really liked that!  

Now, whenever I face challenges of any kind and I am tempted to be doubtful, I just bring those words back to mind:  ‘Act like God is telling you the truth.’ That is faith in action. I choose to believe and act on God’s word, rather than react with worry to the circumstances or challenges facing me. God’s word is truth and the bible, citing the example of Abraham, shows us that our faith is only made complete by our actions (Read James chapter 2, verses 14-25).

If you are going through any difficulty today, no matter how long it takes, keep praying and believing and standing on God’s word!  Some answers come quickly, others come slowly, but keep your heart steadfast and fixed on God’s promises. He will surely come through for you. Faith is not a one-off event; it is a ‘walk’, a way of living (2 Corinthians, chapter 5, verse 7).  

Remain blessed.


Begin With the End in Mind

The start of a new year often spells new life, new beginnings.  Still, it is good at the start of the year to reflect on how we would like to be remembered when we come to the end of our days.  Steven Covey in his bestselling book, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, urges his readers to first and foremost, ‘Begin with the end in mind’.  This is a sober thought which struck me even more a couple of days ago when I attended the funeral of my 91 year old neighbour, Eileen Clark.

 Eileen was a wise and remarkable woman, with a very sharp wit and fun to be around, even to the very end. Just one hour with her in the nursing home where she spent the last few years of her life meant my week was bound to be full of wise choices and decisions because she demanded that I appreciate life and my relative youth. In her own inimitable way, she taught me how to be thankful for little mercies. Eileen is gone, but she left me something remarkable – the need to be thankful in all circumstances - that I will forever cherish.

After the funeral service, I walked soberly back to my car parked next to the cemetery, feeling a bit sad.  But everywhere was calm, truly beautiful and serene, not what I expected.  I could hear the still voice of God comforting me saying, you have nothing to fear about death; death is not ugly, it can be beautiful for a life lived well, especially when that life was spent serving others.  I remember asking myself these two questions, I am asking you now:

1.  What are you going to leave behind?

2.  How are you going to live the rest of your days, starting from this New Year?

Above all, I found great comfort in the following verse from Romans, chapter 8 verses 38-39 read at Eileen’s funeral service:

‘For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.’

Happy new year all!


You are made in God’s Perfect Image

Get ready!  The season of good cheer and endless partying is about to begin. It is also the season when everyone goes extra crazy on social media, posting photos of their perfect faces, perfect bodies, perfect gifts, not to mention perfect family lives. This can be difficult when the majority of people feel anything but ‘perfect.’

But before you drown in dissatisfaction, remember that the ‘out-side’ must never determine who you truly are.  Who you are is more important than what you have. Trust me, it doesn’t matter how ‘perfect’ people look on the outside, the majority of them are battling issues on the inside. But by the help of God, they just carry it well!  And that is the good news.  We can all be of good cheer because no matter how we feel about ourselves, one fact remains - God has made us all in his own perfect image! (Genesis 1:27)

One of our church leaders said recently: ‘The greatest gift you can give yourself this Christmas season is fully accepting the love of Christ.’

Do this and watch your confidence and self-esteem soar.  You will feel even more ‘perfect’ than all the touched-up photos assailing you on social media.  After all, in Christ alone our hope and our perfection are found.  Enjoy the season!


Keep the thief out!

The bible describes the devil as a thief whose main agenda is to kill, to steal and to destroy (John 10:10).

How do you prevent a thief from breaking into your property? You lock all doors securely.  You may even secure all accessible windows as a thief is always lurking about, searching for that opportunity or ‘open door.’ A thief rarely looks like one. That is often the secret to their success and that is why so often we fall victims.

This also applies to the ‘open doors’ in our lives.  Quite often, they appear very harmless, but beware.  What is that open door in your life that allows the devil to break in?  Is it anger? Laziness? Pride? Procrastination? Gossip?  Greed? These do not seem like grievous sins, but they do not have to be to destroy lives. It is the little foxes that ruin the vine (Song of Solomon 2:15).  Seemingly insignificant or ‘harmless’ actions or habits can cause great damage. One little folly can permanently ruin a good reputation.  One misguided action can wipe out an entire life’s savings!  The devil loves the ‘little foxes’ that act as open doors for him to come into our lives to kill, steal and destroy us and all those things that are so precious to us. He is the biggest thief, so beware. Work hard to keep that thief out!


Ordering your priorities

Sometime ago, a female motorist in the USA was charged with child neglect and abuse.  Failing to stop at a red light, the police had pulled her over, only to discover that not only was she drunk, she also had her 16 month old daughter in the back seat of her car, without a seat belt.  The story got even more horrifying as the police noticed that the drunken woman had strapped 24 cans of lager securely to the front passenger seat with the seat belt.  So, alcohol strapped securely with a seat belt, but 16 month old child left unstrapped in back seat.   Beggars belief, but this is a true story.   It would seem that this woman valued her alcohol supply more than she did her vulnerable toddler.  Clearly, this is a woman with a problem.  Still, what an ordering of priorities!

Most of us would be utterly incensed by this degree of irresponsibility, wouldn’t we?  However, when we put lascivious living before the things of God, we may well be acting like that irresponsible woman.  How often for instance do we spend hours taking care of our physical bodies, but think nothing of neglecting our spiritual lives? What is the ratio of time we spend feeding our minds tabloid or social media junk, versus time invested in studying the word of God?  Also, how often do we put work before our families or having a ‘good’ time before studying for an important assignment or examination?  We may not get arrested by the police like the woman in this story.  After all, we are not criminals (I hope!).  However, the bible tells us to mind how we live. ‘Not as unwise, but wise’ (Ephesians 5: 15-16).  Just because something is permissible, does not mean it is beneficial (I Corinthians, 10:23).  We are also told that:  ‘If a man knows what is right to do and yet does not do it, he commits a sin’ (James 4:7).   Ordering our priorities daily is a must if we are to live meaningful and if I may I add, ‘police-free’ lives.  Remain blessed.


Be like your Father….

I was standing in the queue at a supermarket recently when the lady in front of me presented a voucher to the shop assistant, expecting some discount off her purchase. The assistant kindly pointed out that the voucher had long expired. It seemed pretty obvious that the lady shopper knew the voucher had expired but was trying it on.  After paying for her goods however, she struck up a conversation with another woman who clearly was an acquaintance or friend.  They were talking about church and there was a good deal of ‘Bless the Lord’, ‘Praise the Lord’ and ‘God is good.’  I did find it odd that someone who just tried to pull a fast one on the shop assistant was praising the Lord so profusely. What about some Godly honesty and truthfulness? I know you may be thinking: come on, that’s being judgemental.  After all, the Bible says:  ‘Judge not that ye be not judged’ (Matthew 7:1).  I agree, my thoughts could be construed as judgemental, but you will also agree that right is right and wrong is wrong. As professed Christians, we ought to be good witnesses and that means being people of integrity.

I think back to my own childhood. I was a rather strong-willed and stubborn girl at times (My husband and kids might say nothing has changed!) This caused my mother a great deal of anxiety as she was a very calm and even- tempered woman.  Even now, I can still hear her voice as she lamented: ‘I don’t know where you get this stubborn attitude from, certainly not from me!’  She was disappointed I hadn’t inherited her meekness.  In the same way, it must disappoint our father in heaven when his children do not represent him in a positive light.  Yes, God’s love is unconditional.  His love is not predicated on our performance. Nonetheless, he wants us to ‘Be perfect, just as your heavenly father is perfect’ (Matthew 5:48). It is an aspiration we need to continually strive for.

PS: Some 40 odd years on, I am better behaved now, I think……


Who sets your Standards?

I was intrigued by this headline in a daily tabloid last week:

 ‘Seven priests walk into a bar….and get kicked out by staff who think they’re on a stag do!’

Before I proceed to make my point, please note that this piece is not a condemnation of those who go to bars or those who like to have the odd pint of beer, glass of wine or whatever liquor takes their fancy.  My point transcends the issue of whether or not it is right that Christians or religious leaders of any denomination should drink alcohol.  

But let us examine this one story that has made headlines this week closely, because the reaction of the bar staff says something about the standards to which other people hold us once we openly profess to be Christians.  What is clear is that they did not expect that ‘real’ or ‘genuine’ priests visit bars.  If they did, they would not have immediately concluded that these bona fide priests were fakes, i.e. young men on a stag night.  

It is very interesting the assumptions people who have little interest in religion and who probably do not believe in the existence of God make about Christians.  As far as the bar staff were concerned, Christians, God-believing people, should not be seen in bars, so any one resembling a priest who enters a bar, has to be a fake, because a bar is not a place priests visit. To me, that simply was the cause of the misunderstanding. While I do not believe that having a glass of wine condemns you to eternal damnation, the evidence is also there that high alcohol consumption is an increasing epidemic that everyone should guard against.  So, the bar staff, rightly or wrongly, expect Christians to be ‘different’.

There is a negative side to this.  It means that other people often hold Christians up to an incredibly high standard, one that may be unrealistic to meet. As individual Christians, we know ourselves only too well, warts and all, so expecting us to be ‘perfect’ can be daunting, because we know we are not.   On the other hand, there is a very positive message informing this view of us as Christians.  People hold us up to high standards because they believe that our values, which are based on our relationship with Jesus, will cause us to rise up to the high standards of behaviour and living expected of us.  I think that is worth celebrating because I would rather people expect much of me than little.  Christ has given us so much, so ‘to whom much is given, much is expected’ (Luke chapter 12, verse 48).

Also, when people hold us up to high standards, the human nature is such that we try to live up to them.  That is why affirming others in positive ways is very important. The bible is the Christian’s manual for living an exemplary life.  It sets out the standards by which we should live.  My question for you is, how well do you know your manual?  

JULY 2017

He orders your Steps and Mis-steps

I suffered a bitter disappointment recently.  An opportunity was on the horizon and I believed God was going to open the door for me.  I prayed, fasted for accelerated breakthrough and even ‘sowed a seed’!  I was confident the door would swing wide open.  Guess what?  It slammed in my face.  I was distraught and fired the questions at God.  Why, God, Why? He owed me that opportunity, I felt. I had prayed fervently, starved myself, bound all my enemies, both real and imagined, bribed God with money, what else did he want? I promptly asked Him for a refund! But God remained silent.  

You see, it is difficult for the Holy Spirit to get through to us when our minds are full of worry, turmoil and anxiety.  Sometimes we need to be still and listen to his voice.  As I sat in Church a week later, Psalm 37:23 came to my mind.  ‘The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord and he delighteth in his way’.  The lost opportunity was not an accident.  God was ordering my steps.

I understand now that God does not work to my schedule.  He is also more interested in my character than my comfort.  I can’t twist his arm, bribe or threaten him in a bid to receive what he never planned for me to have in the first place.  Yes, I am still disappointed the door of opportunity did not open and you too may be in a place of disappointment today.  But take comfort and remember that our God is wiser than we are and His plans for us are always good.  Jeremiah 29:11 says: ‘For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord.  Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’  So, be encouraged.  God orders your steps and mis-steps..

JUNE 2017

Take time out to rest.

Like many who just finished their half-term break, I too just returned from a much needed holiday with my family.  It was great to have one week when I wasn’t tied down to work or other obligations.  I now feel fully rested and ready to face the demands of work and life in general. Genesis chapter 2, verses 2-3 says: ‘By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work.’

Taking time out from our daily grind to rest is an obligation we owe ourselves.  It is vital for our physical, mental and spiritual health and well-being.  Jesus often took time way from the pressures of the crowds to rest.  In Mark chapter 6 verse 31, he said to his apostles ‘Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.’  This was when the crowds were making so many demands on them that they had not even had a chance to eat.   If the All-powerful son of God felt he needed a break, why should we mere mortals be any different?

 Isaiah 30 verse 15 tells us that we can gain strength through quietness and rest.  This means that ironically, rest can be a time of great renewal and productivity.  The relaxed mind is a creative mind.  A lot of the time we are so busy rushing around like headless chickens that we have little or no time to reflect on the logic or rationale behind our activities. We must remember too that activity does not equate to productivity. Reflection and ‘thinking time’ are vital if we are to live productive and most of all, meaningful lives.   The author, Stephen Covey once said ‘Be sure that, as you scramble up the ladder of success, it is leaning against the right building.’  

Taking time out to rest and reflect gives us all great opportunities to check that our lives and values are built on solid Christian foundations.  Be sure to do this often because ‘the unexamined life is not worth living’, according to Socrates, one of the world’s greatest thinkers.  Remain blessed.

MAY 2017

Embrace the Stretching life brings

The 12th of April will always be a memorable day for me. I attended my graduation ceremony flanked by my husband, children, daughter-in-law and church Pastor. I had finally gained my Doctorate in Education after 8 long years and many sleepless nights.  Over the period of my study, my three children also graduated, my son got married, my job role changed three times, I experienced many happy times and a few turbulent times.  But one unfinished business remained – completing my Doctorate. The temptation to quit often came with every personal challenge. I quite often felt ‘stretched’ beyond my capacity to endure.   But two things kept me hanging in there – (1) Prayers, mine and those of my church friends and family (2) The fear of disappointing my loved ones - especially my children, if I dropped out.  I never stop encouraging my children to be good finishers, so I had to ‘walk my talk’, however painful it was.

Starting anything worthwhile is easy.  Finishing strong is a whole lot tougher! But success has its own recipe and stretching is a key ingredient.  Ecclesiastes Chapter 7, verse 8 says: ‘The end of a matter is better than its beginning.’

I often think that as parents we work very hard to give our children what we never had.  What we often fail to give them is what we do have, which are: the ability to persevere under pressure, resistance, dogged determination and the will to follow through in life.

Jesus is a prime example of pure grace under pressure. Hebrews chapter 12, verse 2 says:

‘Fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy that was set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.’

Just think where we would all be if Jesus had given up half way through his trial, because he could no longer endure the pain and humiliation of the cross?  None of us will ever come close to carrying a burden of such magnitude.  Yet, see what joy salvation has brought to all who believe – the unmerited favour of eternal life.

So, what challenge are you facing today?  Focus on the reward rather than the pain and never resist the stretching that life sometimes brings, because the joys often outweigh the pain.  

The day after I was awarded my Doctorate, I received a note from my supervisor.  It simply said: ‘Ada, you wake up every day from now on and you are still a Doctor…’   

I couldn’t stop smiling. Every single ‘stretch’ over the 8 year period of study was worth the joy that short note brought to my heart.  

APRIL 2017

Have an attitude of gratitude

An attitude of gratitude does not always come naturally to us.  Sadly in this day and age, an attitude of entitlement means we have lost our sense of gratitude and take our many blessings for granted. But we are urged in I Thessalonians, chapter 5 verse 18, to give thanks in everything because it is the will of God.  Note the verse does not say ‘some things’, but ‘everything’!  Similarly, Ephesians, chapter 5 verse 20 says: ‘Always give thanks to God the father for everything in the name of the Lord Jesus’. This means that having a grateful heart is very important to God.

The gospel of Luke (Luke chapter 17, verses 11-19) tells an interesting story about gratitude and the absence of it in people.  According to Luke’s account, Jesus, on his way to Jerusalem, travelled along the border between Samaria and Galilee. 10 men who had leprosy came to meet him and cried out – ‘Lord Jesus, have pity on us’.  Jesus, showing them mercy told them: ‘Go show themselves to the priests’.  And as they went, they were cleansed. One of them, seeing he was healed, came back, threw himself at Jesus’ feet and thanked him.  This man was a Samaritan, a ‘foreigner.’ Jesus noted in this story that he healed nine lepers, but only one thought it fit to express any gratitude. The Samaritan was grateful because unlike the other nine lepers who were healed, he did not have an ‘entitlement mentality’. Jesus said to him, ‘rise, and go, your faith has saved you.’

Jesus’ response to this one man implies that having a heart of gratitude is like having the right soil for your faith to grow and manifest. This means, gratitude will attract even more blessings, whereas ingratitude may well stem the flow of further blessings into our lives.   Reflect on this for a moment: Would you continue giving good things to an ungrateful person, one who never stops to say, ‘thank you?’  Not likely!

So, do as you would like done to you.  Always seek for things to be grateful for. Take time show gratitude to people who have made a difference to your life. Thank God always for his manifold blessings and goodness to you. If nothing comes to mind, just thank him for the gift of life. But never cease to keep an attitude of gratitude.

MARCH 2017

Let God direct you

Proverbs 3:5 encourages us to ‘Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways submit to him, and he will direct your paths.’

We all struggle with the challenge of sorting out our own ideas from those of God because as human beings, our understanding is limited. But we must be comforted by God’s word which promises us that: ‘Even to your old age and grey hairs, I am he who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you.  I will sustain you and I will rescue you.’ (Isaiah 46:4).  These are very encouraging words because the bible does not always give us clear directions about day to day decisions that impact on our lives; for example, when it is time to move house; or change jobs, or get married and have children.  We are only instructed to commit all that we do to the lord, and he will bring our plans to pass (Proverbs 16:3).

When we trust our lives to a God who is omnipotent (all-powerful) and omniscient (all-knowing), we do not have to worry too much about not knowing what lies ahead of us.   This does not mean that we remain passive spectators in our own affairs, but that we recognise the role of the one who says ‘I will instruct you and teach you in the way that you shall go’ (Psalm 32:8).  Our lives can be best directed by the one who holds the future. Proverbs 19:21 warns us that ‘Many are the plans in a man’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.’  So we must wait confidently for God. We just need to do the next right thing and take the next step that lies before us. God directs us one step at a time.  This means living in the present a good deal of the time and not worrying too much about the future because ‘Each day has enough trouble of its own’ (Matthew 6:34).  So, be at peace and trust God. His purpose for your life will surely come to pass.


2017 – The year to start living intentionally

Last month I posed some questions we may want to reflect on if we must move from ‘excuses’ to ‘success’ in 2017.  I also suggested that we need to live ‘intentional’ lives if we are to remain successful.  What does living an intentional life mean? Intentional means ‘done on purpose’ or ‘deliberate.’  Others synonyms for intentional include: purposeful; predetermined or conscious.

All of these imply that anyone who lives an intentional life must not only have a vision, but must also have clear goals and a concrete plan to turn those goals into reality. It is no use saying you are seeking employment, for example, if you do not have a vision of what your ideal job would look like.  More importantly, if you are not taking positive action to seek employment, then all you are doing is wishful thinking.

‘Faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead’ (James, chapter 2, verse 17).  Sometimes, taking appropriate action can be a strong measure of our faith. Do not grumble about your boss not giving you a salary raise if you are not going to pluck up courage and ask for one.  If you think you need better skills, don’t just think it, take action and enrol on that course!  Don’t say your husband never buys you gifts if you are not going to tell him gifts make you happy (Thought I’d throw that in, just in case my husband reads this).

Seriously, the present state of our lives has largely been determined by the decisions and choices we have made, or failed to make.  Let us see what Ephesians chapter 2 verse 10 says about intentional and purposeful living:  ‘For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.’ Even God had a clear intention for our lives before he created us. And so should we.

This means refusing to complain and whine about difficulties, failures and circumstances of the past that cannot be changed.  Instead, take a leaf from the book of the apostle Paul who declared: ‘This one thing I do: forgetting what is behind and straining towards what is ahead, I press on towards the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenwards in Christ Jesus.’ (Philippians, chapter 4, verses 12-14).

So let 2017 be the year you start to live intentionally.  Remain blessed.


Happy New Year!

Jesus told his disciples a very simple but insightful story in Matthew Chapter 45, verses 14-30. It is the ‘Parable of the Talents.’

A man who was preparing to leave on a long journey entrusted his wealth to three of his servants according to what he perceived their abilities to be.  To the first, he gave five talents, to the second two talents and to the third, he gave one talent.  The first two immediately invested their master’s money and doubled the original sums given to them.  The third servant however, dug a hole in the ground and buried his master’s money gaining nothing at all.  When the master returned, the first two eagerly reported their increased investment of their master’s money and were both commended as ‘good and faithful servants’. The third servant, who was reluctant to use his skills wholeheartedly to increase his master’s wealth, was labelled a ‘wicked and lazy servant.’    His feeble, but calculated excuse was that he was afraid to take a risk with his master’s money as he considered him a ‘hard’ man!

My question to you is: How would you rate yourself when it comes to ‘investing’ your God-given skills and talents?  Do you diligently put them to work like the first two servants or do you just ‘bury’ them, yielding no return at all, like the lazy servant who ended up being condemned?  The master’s differing reactions to the three servants demonstrate the consequences of faithful and unfaithful service.

Colossians Chapter 3, verse 23 says: ‘Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward.  It is the Lord you are serving’.  There are eternal consequences when we ‘bury’ our gifts like the last servant did.  He tried to justify his actions with excuses.  Someone called an excuse, a ‘well planned lie’.  Excuses will never bring us success.   Each and every one of us will be given 365 days in 2017.  The question is, how are you going to spend those days?

Here are some questions to reflect on at the start of this New Year if we want to move from excuses to success:

1. What is my vision for 2017?

2. What is my plan to make this vision a reality?  Remember, if you fail to plan, you plan to fail.

3. What do I need to do this year to maximise every hour of every day?

4. What needs to change in my thinking if I must have success in 2017?

5. What actions do I need to take? Remember, nothing just happens!

6. How do I ensure that I live intentionally as opposed to ‘drifting’ in 2017?

Ponder on these questions, take some positive action and may God grant you a glorious and successful 2017.  Happy New Year to you all!


Giving – A lifestyle

Last Tuesday 29th November, was ‘Giving Tuesday’, a National day when we were all encouraged to give generously to others, and do something good for charity.  This is a great and noble idea, but wouldn’t it be even better if we were all encouraged to make giving and doing good deeds a lifestyle, one that is not restricted to just the one day a year?

The speaker and author, Tony Robbins said: ‘Life will support that which supports more of life.’ In other words, if you make giving and serving humanity a life purpose, life will in turn, bless you with many great and wonderful insights.  Proverbs, Chapter 11, verse 25 puts it this way:  ‘A generous person will prosper, whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.’

You might say, ‘I have nothing to give.’ But you are wrong.  We all have something to give, however small.  There is something valuable in each and every one of us.  When we feel most dry and empty, that is when we need to step up on our giving because the bible tells us: ‘Give and it shall be given to you’.  Also, the measure we give is the measure we will receive (Luke chapter 6, verse 38).   This means that if you make giving and doing good deeds a ‘one day in a year’ affair, you will receive a ‘one day in a year’ blessing or payback.   If however, giving to others becomes your life style, life will deliver to you, blessings every single day.  It is a universal law that never fails.  So, make giving to others a lifestyle and watch your life change in ways you could never have imagined! (Malachi, Chapter 3, verse 10).


What were you put on this earth to do?

There is something about a compelling vision that is able to sustain us even in the most difficult of circumstances, because the road to great success is quite often paved with many stumbling blocks.  But a compelling vision converts those stumbling blocks into stepping stones to success.  This is why the bible encourages us to:

‘Write the vision and make it plain upon tablets, that he may run that reads it’ (Habakkuk chapter 2, verse 2).

God is a personal God.  He is also an intentional God.  Personal, because every human being he created is very important to him.  He is no respecter of persons. He is an ‘equal opportunities’ God!  He is also intentional because when he created you, he created you for a definite purpose. He had a job in mind for you when he created you.  

The author Jack Canfield wrote:

‘I believe that each of us is born with a life purpose. Identifying, acknowledging, and honouring this purpose is perhaps the most important action successful people take.  They take the time to understand what they’re here to do – and then they pursue that with passion and enthusiasm’.

So, you owe yourself a duty to get alone with God.   Block out quality time with him as 2016 slowly draws to a close, and seek out his vision for your life.  What were you put on this earth to do?  Once you have a compelling vision of what you were meant to do on this earth, nothing can stop you!  Better still, you will be amazed where God will take you.


Let your light shine

I was a proud mother last week when I received the news that my daughter received a high commendation for excellent ‘patient care.’  Please forgive me if I sound boastful, but if you are a parent, you will understand that few things bring greater joy to your heart than seeing your child excel in their chosen path in life.

But what really brings joy to my heart is not simply because my child was commended, but because she has successfully applied the Godly principles she learnt in church to the workplace, to merit some recognition.  The world needs to see God at work in our chosen professions.  In the main, being in church is easy.  Church people are mostly…nice, especially on Sundays.  But the real challenge of our Christian faith is when we get back to our places of work the rest of the week and have to deal with difficult situations and relationships.  That is when we need to call on the grace of God to put into practice the sermon we heard (or preached) last Sunday.  

Jesus called us to be the ‘salt of the earth’ and the ‘light of the world’, and asks us to let our light shine before others, so that they may see our good deeds (Matthew, chapter 5, verses 13-16).  By following this advice, our lives become powerful sermons in themselves and we do not even have to ‘preach’ to others, because they see God in us. Take up the challenge and let your light shine.  Blessings.


Study – the path to growth.

Abraham Lincoln, the 16th American president, once said that, ‘You have to do your own growing, no matter how tall your grandfather is.’    This is wise advice because as Christians it can be so easy after we have accepted the Lordship of Jesus to rest on our laurels, believing that we have ‘arrived’.  We reckon that we have got salvation so that is all that matters.  But it is important that we continue to grow and develop.

Last week, we started another exciting season at Excel Church, one which coincided with the new school year. We began the ‘Next Level’ course, a series of sessions over the next 12 months where we will gain the opportunity to grow in a deeper knowledge of the Christian doctrine.  There is always some more learning to do if we are to grow in our faith.  Paul exhorted Timothy to study to make himself a Christian approved by God (2 Timothy, chapter 2, verse 15).   

I often hear people say: ‘Oh, so and so has got 20, 30 or 40 years’ experience’ in one thing or the other.  But when you dig deeper, you find out that they have got 20, 30 or even 40 years’ experience of doing the same thing over and over again. But you cannot be growing if you are not learning something new.  You cannot be growing if there is no change in your knowledge, skills, attitude or behaviour.  You cannot grow and still remain the same.  This means that the desire to learn and change through your learning is absolutely necessary if you must move from Christian infancy to maturity (Hebrews chapter 5, verse 12). So, cherish the joy and the challenge of growing and maturing through studying the bible.  


Begin with the end in mind

To begin with the end in mind, writes the author, Stephen Covey, meansto begin each day, task, or project with a clear vision of your desired direction and destination…’

I attended the funeral of a friend’s spouse recently and as various family members, friends and colleagues spoke with passion about how well the deceased had lived his life, I began to wonder about how I was living my own life.  What would my family, friends and colleagues say about me?  It was a sobering, if not frightening thought!  More importantly, to what extent was I living with a clear vision of my desired destination? What legacy would I leave behind when my time comes to exit this world?

This was a wake-up call, one further strengthened by a sermon I heard today about ‘knowing your destination.’  Hebrews chapter 9, verse 27 tells us that we are all destined to die once and after death, we face judgement.   That is a very sobering thought indeed.  My question to you is: How are you preparing for the end?  Do you get up every day with the end in mind?  Do you live only for yourself or are you making a conscious effort to make a positive difference to the lives of those connected to you or those you encounter on a daily basis?

I said last month that we are living in an increasingly uncertain and tumultuous world.  This means that we have a responsibility not only to cherish the gift of each day, but to make every effort to live Godly lives in the midst of so much sin and immorality, seizing the many opportunities that each day brings (Colossians 4:5).

I leave you with some final thoughts: What legacy will you leave behind?  What will your family, friends, neighbours, colleagues and/or fellow believers say about you? How will you like to be remembered?   Someone said that the good that we do does not go away. It stays.  Reflect on this and adjust the way you live accordingly.

JULY 2016

Jesus – Lord Over Every Situation

It has been a tumultuous couple of weeks for Britain following the outcome of the European Union (EU) referendum, Brexit.  Britain voted to leave the EU and whether or not personally you voted to leave or to remain, the fact remains that the entire country seems to be in upheaval of sorts at the moment.  While opinions vary greatly as to whether leaving the EU is a good or bad thing, it is clear that the full consequences of the decision to leave the EU continue to unfold in unexpected ways.

Following Brexit, the pound dropped to an all-time low, the Prime Minister, Mr Cameron resigned, leaving his party to seek a new leader and the leader of the Opposition, Jeremy Corbyn, is facing a challenge to his own leadership.  Nothing is certain anymore and it is a case of ‘expect the unexpected.’   Hebrews 12:27 comes to mind: ‘Everything that can be shaken will be shaken.’

But this is no time to panic.  Instead, it is time to hold steadfast to what we who have put our trust in the Lord Jesus Christ know.  That is, He is unchangeable.  He remains the same yesterday, today and forever (Revelation 1:8).  Yes, there is a great deal of uncertainty at the moment, but we can trust the unknown future to our known God.  He is still on the throne. No man can challenge his leadership (Job 23:13).  No political party can vote him out.  He is the creator of the universe. The Lord of lords. The King of all kings.  The creator of the universe. The one to whom EVERY knee must bow.    What a great time to be part of the family of God!  He alone can provide true security during these uncertain times.  We must heed the advice given in Hebrews 10:23 - ‘Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess for he who promised is faithful.’  Be blessed.

JUNE 2016

Dream Again!

Last month, we looked at how our fear of failure holds us back from achieving our dreams.  In that blog, I pointed out that once we trust God, pluck up the courage to step out, He always steps in to enable us.   God’s thoughts towards us are good all the time.  He wants to give us hope and a great future (Jeremiah Chapter 29 verse 11).

It’s the month of June which means we are now half-way through the year 2016.  It is important therefore to think back to what we had planned to achieve this year.  As we all know January of every year brims with optimism which can gradually dissipate as the months progress.  But mid-way through the year is great opportunity to get back that zest for life and refocus on achieving our goals. With God’s help we can!

So, if you have encountered failure and disappointment of any kind in pursuit of your dreams, here are two quick thoughts to get you back on track.

1.  Change your attitude to failure and disappointment.  I once read that disappointments are inevitable, but misery is optional.   Get right up and  begin again, because how you choose to respond to any event determines the outcome. You are in charge.  You are not a victim of circumstances.  Choose your response.

2. Your disappointment or failure may be a ‘gift’ if you search for the lesson within it.  Someone said ‘Adversity is a gift wrapped in ugly clothing.’ Take off the ‘ugly clothing’ and cherish the ‘gift.’  Ask yourself: what is life trying to teach me through this failure and disappointment?  Remember, ALL things work out for good if we trust God (Romans, chapter 8 verse 28).

So, get back up and dream again.  God is on your side!

MAY 2016

If not now, when?

I woke up one morning this week with the phrase, ‘If not now, when?’ ringing in my ears.  ‘If not now, when?’

I soon realised that God was challenging me about the habit of putting things off.  It is called, procrastination.  Why do we do it?  The first reason that comes to mind is that we fear failure. We do not act on our God-given ideas because we fear failure and the mockery that may accompany failure. But think how often toddlers fall as they try to take their first steps.  Do they give up?  Never! They get up again and again until walking becomes second nature. That should be our attitude. One of Winston Churchill’s famous quote is: ‘Success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.’ That’s real insight!

Once you have a positive view of failure, you are not afraid to make mistakes. You are able to step out and take action on your God-given ideas.  You become more innovative, more creative and you are able to take risks.  You are not afraid to ‘step out of the boat’ and ‘walk on water’ (Matthew chapter 14, verses 22-33).  The Christian life is not natural but super-natural.  That is what makes being a Christian so exciting.  We are in partnership with God, so our potential is unlimited! So, whatever dreams God has laid on your heart, stop hesitating.  Do not fear.  Just go for it!  If not now, when?

APRIL 2016

Deal with the root of the problem

Last month I talked about the need for us to connect our habits to our purpose.  We need to cultivate habits that move us in a positive direction towards our desired goals.  When we struggle with bad habits it is more than likely because we have not dealt with ‘the root of the problem.’

I will give a personal example.  When I am up against a tight deadline or a tough challenge, my default state is to seek comfort in food as a ‘cushion’ for my tense feelings. Once I recognised the problem I had to re-programme my mind to seek more positive ways of dealing with tension. More importantly, I make extra effort to avoid stressful situations as far as it depends on me.  I calm myself by meditating on scriptures, for example, 1 Peter, chapter 5 verse 7 which encourages us to cast all our cares on God because He cares for us.  I can deal with stress by ‘feeding’ on the word of God instead of gorging on physical food.  His word is spirit and is life (John chapter 6 verse 63). His word is also living and active (Hebrews chapter 4 verse 12).

What habits do you struggle with today?  Deal with the root of the problem.  I will give another personal example.  I had a very painful and recurrent eye infection not too long ago. I dealt with it by taking painkillers which worked for a bit, but each time, the infection soon returned. I had not dealt with the root of the infection.  But when I did by seeing a doctor and taking some antibiotics, the infection ceased to return.

Bad habits are like that.  They will persist until we deal with the root. Seek help by talking to someone you can trust. Seek Godly counsel. Above all, pray for God’s help to overcome bad habits.  Talk to him like a friend, in your own simple language. God is an ever present help in trouble (Psalm 46, verse 1).  He can save, he can heal. He can deliver.  Once again, cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.  

Stay blessed.